I came to notice that the main concern often brought forward by people against swinging as a lifestyle, especially those with religions and moral as their motives, is the sexual activities involved in this lifestyle. Yes, we do have to admit that swinging involves a certain degree of sexual activities in the process. Yet, it is not solely about seeking sexual satisfactions.

Swinging is far beyond sex. If you take your time and think about the level of trust and the intensity of love involved in swinging, you will notice that it is not just about sex. The main reason why swinging couples, over 90% of them, are living superbly happy lives is because they can explore themselves sexually, be open about their fantasies, and learn to trust and love their spouses even more each day. Swinging is a very fulfilling lifestyle and no one gets hurt in the process. People who approached swinging because of the sex are those who will see their relationships degrade over time; this is a clear mark that swinging must be seen more than just a sexual lifestyle.

It is natural that there will be pros and cons about a lifestyle, and swinging is no exception. As a swinger, I can understand perfectly how people against the lifestyle think and I don’t blame them whatsoever. They have logical reasons — according to conventional cultures and religions — and swinging does require more in-depth look to understand. In time, people will be able to see swinging beyond the sex part and accept the lifestyle as one full of love.