If you are a single male and you want to get into a swinging community you should know that there are many couples looking for a single male. You have to search on internet for swinging sites and forums, register to these forums so you can meet another swinging people. In this way you can find about the swinging clubs and community around your area. Make a honest and complete profile of yourself on forums, so the swingers have the chance to find what kind of person you are. Pay attention to the spelling and grammar; if your profile will look like one made in a hurry, swingers will may think that you are superficial and all you want is just a night stand.

Put some pictures of your body but not of your sexual organ! If a couple is interested in your penis size they will ask you. Don`t praise your penis, it is not what the couples are looking for!

Don`t send emails to many couples; being a community, they interact and they will know about your email. They will understand that you don`t consider any of them special and you just want to have sex with any couple available. Do not say in your mail that the woman from the couple is hot, this is an offence and you will be rejected. But you may say compliments, both for the woman and her partner.

Respect is very important, also your attitude and your willing to understand and fulfill the couple`s desires and fantasies. In this way, yours will be fulfilled too.

Try to find things that you have in common with a couple, this will increase your chances to get close to them. They share a lifestyle not just their sexuality.

An important thing: be honest, sincere and open; don`t try to look like someone that you are not.  Have a relationship based on communication and friendship and you will be soon a part of the swinging community.

Like in any other sexual activity, safety is extremely important in swinging. Maybe you and your partner don`t use a condom because you know and trust each other, but the swinging involves another people so using condoms is absolutely necessary. Use latex condoms with water-based lube, it`s the safest way to avoid very dangerous diseases and pregnancy too. Not all the condoms are the same, so men should try different type of condoms from various brands to find the type they like the most. Be careful when you put the condom to catch its tip as you unroll it to forbid the forming of the air bubble in the reservoir tip. You can put some water-based lube on the condom to increase the comfort and the pleasure and to avoid the condom tearing during the sexual act.
Change the condom at every new partner, as well as when switch from the normal sex to the anal sex. Regarding the oral sex, the use of barrier for this type of sex is not very widespread in the swinging community, but you and your partner should decide if you want to use it or not. There are risks of taking herpes, as well as HIV if the oral sex is unprotected, so it`s very important to know very well your swing partners, if you don`t use safe sex oral barriers.
Use surgical gloves if you want to stick your hand in someone`s ass or vagina and if you had your fingers in someone`s ass hole or vagina, wash your hands with hot water and anti-bacterial soap. If you use sexual toys, dildos, vegetables, put a condom on it; don`t switch the toys from vagina to ass hole or from one person`s body to another without putting a new condom on it before.
Personal hygiene and using things such as: paper toilet, wet wipes, are also very important.