Swinging is always about mutual pleasure. Both you and your spouse must accept the lifestyle voluntarily and must enjoy the process as well. The worst thing that can happen to your relationship when you practice swinging as part of it is to actually have your spouse wonders what swinging brings for them. In order to avoid that, you need to make sure that you keep the openness and honest communication among the two of you is intact, and that both of you maintain a certain level of comfort.

It is only natural that how you and your spouse feel about swinging change as you go deeper into the lifestyle. The most common reason your spouse changes his or her mind is seeing you having more pleasure than they do. You should avoid getting too carried away by the experience and stay in control at all times. You need to make sure your spouse is enjoying the ride as well, and having too much fun while your partner is not enjoying the activity will do you no good.

If you are into swinging, you must have managed to establish a certain amount of openness and trust at the beginning. Use this openness to constantly communicate with each other and discuss about various aspects of the lifestyle. You will be able to see what works and improve the overall experience. This way, you will never have to deal with disappointed spouse and both of you can have more pleasant experiences swinging together.